October 25, 2017

Book Club Chat

By Terrie Bickel, Leader of the Bremen Readers

The Bremen Readers' latest discussion was about The Memory Keeper’s Daughter, by Kim Edwards. The book follows two families whose lives are intertwined by the same secret, a secret that began with the birth of a child.

It is 1964 and Dr. David Henry is a happily married man whose wife, Norah is pregnant with their first child. As she goes into labor, they drive through the snow to Henry’s clinic. There they are joined by Caroline Gill, Dr. Henry’s nurse. Norah gives birth to a healthy baby boy, and then his twin sister. When Dr. Henry realizes his daughter has Down’s Syndrome, he gives the baby to Nurse Gill and instructs her to take the baby to an institution. He then tells Norah that their daughter was stillborn. When Nurse Gill gets to the institution, she realizes that she cannot leave the infant there, and instead raises her as her own.

Edwards leads us through the lives of these two families, one of which unravels as the book progresses. The story made for an interesting book discussion as the Readers were both saddened by the demise of Dr. Henry’s immediate family, and uplifted by the turnout of his daughter. While no one agreed with Dr. Henry’s decision, all could understand how such a thing could happen, particularly in the 1960s. And of course, had Dr. Henry not given his infant up, there would be no book. The book did have a pleasing ending, which helped make up for its often sad storyline. The Readers ended up giving The Memory Keeper’s Daughter a rating of 3.125.

October 13, 2017

Book Club Chat

By Chris O'Brien, Leader of Questers Book Club

The Questers Book Club met Wednesday, Oct. 11 to discuss The Paris Wife by Paula McClain. The Questers rated this book a 3.1, with much lively discussion, including some honest criticism. However, those of us who have never read any of Hemingway’s works left the discussion with serious intention of doing so. 

The author writes on her website that when she began to research her book, beginning with biographies of Hemingway and Hadley, and with their delicious correspondence, she knew the actual story of the Hemingway’s marriage was near perfect.  It was a ready-made novel, ripe for the picking. She did not have to invent a plot for them, nor did she want to. She used the framework of historical documentation to push into the characters’ hearts and minds, discovering their motivations, their deepest wishes.

The most important step for the author was getting Hadley’s voice. She has very little dialogue in A Moveable Feast, but what there is, is so evocative. It led the author to seek out the letters Hadley wrote to Ernest during their courtship, and that’s when she knew she could write the book. Her speech rhythms, her intelligence and charm and sense of humor all come through with clarity and effervescence. She says she fell in love with them both.

Then things began to unravel. Hadley lost a briefcase that contained four years of Hemingway’s work. McLain says that Hemingway never really forgave her for that. It was symbolic of how different they were.

Hemingway was single-minded about his writing. Hadley was the homemaker and mother, taking care of the child they nicknamed “Bumby.” Finally, Hemingway began having an affair with one of Hadley’s friends, a glamorous young journalist named Pauline Pfeiffer.

During the time Pauline was pursuing Ernest, she never lost this pretense that she was also Hadley’s best friend --- she was sending letters to them both. The letters to Ernest were letters to a lover. And the letters to Hadley were sort of eerily asking for approval.

The marriage finally fell apart after one disastrous summer, when the three members of the love triangle vacationed together on the Riviera. They spent the trip in the company of the rich and sophisticated Sara and Gerald Murphy, who loved to entertain talented artists and writers like F. Scott Fitzgerald and Hemingway. Many years later, Hadley, who by then had been happily remarried for many years, told an interviewer how glad she was when the marriage finally ended.

“Ernest was a terrific responsibility. And when he was not happy, when he was leading a double life and everything, it was just awfully hard. I just didn’t care for it.”

But Hadley also told the interviewer that she still cared for Hemingway and thought he was a great man. For his part, Hemingway seemed to regret what had happened to their marriage in Paris.

Hemingway was married four times, and Pfeiffer became his second wife. Yet he seemed to have a great affection for Hadley Richardson until the end of his life.  Neither of them ever seemed to forget what it was like to be young and in love in beautiful Paris.

October 11, 2017

Yes, We Have a Book for That


By Cindy Hartman, Children's Department Assistant at Bremen Public Library

Yes, we have a book on that. As an assistant to the children's librarian, I get asked a variety of questions every day and my usual answer is, “Yes, we have a book on that." With the development of the Wiggle Worms story time for children birth through age five, we now have a program for babies and toddlers. With this younger age group, comes a different set of needs, and yes we have a book on that.

One of the recent themes in the question-field, that I have gotten recently, is do we have any books on potty-training? We have a variety of books for the parent or caregiver, but we also have several books that are specifically written for children. Since I primarily deal with children’s books, that is what we will cover today.

Books for Children on Potty Training:

Princess of the Potty by Nora Gaydos

Prince of the Potty by Nora Gaydos

It’s Potty Time by Tracey Corderoy

Potty Superhero - Get Ready for Big Boy Pants by Mabel Forsyth

Dinosaur vs. the Potty by Bob Shea

Duck Goes Potty by Michael Dahl

Have You Seen My Potty? By Mij Kelly

Potty Time by Guido van Genechten

On Your Potty by Virginia Miller

Potty by Leslie Patricelli

Vegetables in Underwear by Jared Chapman

In a previous life, I was director of various preschools and daycare facilities for about 25 years. Here are some tips that I would suggest in beginning this process:

1. Make sure that your child is ready. They should be having several dry diapers each day, be able to communicate that they need to go to the restroom, or that they need to be changed, be able to take off their own clothing and be able to follow simple directions. If you make sure that they are ready, it will be a much quicker, and less stressful for all.

2. Make sure that you are ready. It is important that you are consistent in this process. Do not confuse the child because it is not convenient for you to do potty-training today, so you don’t work on it. Be positive and be proactive. Have underwear, potty seat, and possibly a timer to remind them to go potty ready. Have some books to read while practicing will make it easier for your child to handle the waiting process.

3. Go shopping together and buy special underwear that has meaning to your child and put this on your child each morning and as long as they stay dry, they get to wear the special underwear. When they have an accident, they then change into plain training underwear. If you are concerned about accidents, I would suggest to buy some old fashioned rubber pants like those used for cloth diapers to put on over their training pants. Do not rely on disposable products such as Pull-ups for every day usage as they are designed to wick away moisture and your child will not be able to tell that they are wet. These type of products are fine for special events that you need to make sure that your child does not have an accident, but not for daily use.

4. Have a small treat ready that they really love that they can immediately have when you have success. After you have success for several days, you can then move on to a longer term that that they have to wait to get after several times of success. Example: do M&M’s for using the potty and staying dry. Your child has been dry for a couple of weeks with only one or two accidents. Move on to a special thing that your child really wants to do.

We also have books on other topics that parents may need some assistance with. Breaking your child from their pacifier? We have a book on that! No More Pacifiers by Michael Dahl. Transitioning to a big bed? We have a book on that! Big Bed For Giraffe by Michael Dahl.

Take advantage of your library, because we have a book on that!

October 8, 2017

Exciting Week Ahead

This is going to be an exciting week at Bremen Public Library! Not only do we have two book club discussions and our regularly-scheduled Wiggle Worms and Preschool Story Hour, but we have two well-known authors coming to visit, a Halloween-themed Brick Club AND it's the final week to enter the Flash Fiction Challenge!

Here are some highlights for October 9-14:


MONDAY, 7:30-8:30 PM

The Night Owls Book Club meets on the second Monday of every month in the Upper Level Meeting Room of Bremen Public Library. Discussion leaders are Jill Byrd and Melissa Nunez. 
New members are always welcome! Stop by the Adult Desk at Bremen Public Library to request a copy of next month's book.

TUESDAY AND WEDNESDAY, 10-10:45 AM

Wiggle Worms (an interactive story time for little ones age 0-5 and their parents, grandparents or caregivers) features early literacy fun with books, songs, fingerplays and body movement. 
Registration is required. Please call or stop by the Children's Department to inquire about openings.

TUESDAY, 6-7 PM

Bremen Public Library welcomes Tracy Korn, author of The Elements series, as the headline event of Teen Read Week. Korn will lead the audience in an interactive game about storytelling, followed by a Q & A time and a book signing. She will give away posters and bookmarks. Her books will be available for purchase and signing and she will be accompanied by live character representations from her books! Korn is an Indiana resident who holds three master's degrees from Indiana University. She has taught high school English for 17 years. Her students inspired her to write her debut novel, AQUA, which is the first book in The Elements series. The sequel, TERRA, was released Aug. 27, 2016. The third book in the series, AER, was just released in September. 
Everyone is invited to attend this free event!


WEDNESDAY, 2:15-3:15 PM

The Questers Book Club meets on the second Wednesday of every month from 2:15 to 3:15 p.m. in the Lower Level Meeting Room of Bremen Public Library. Discussion leader for the Questers is Chris O'Brien. 
New members are always welcome! Stop by the Adult Desk at Bremen Public Library to request a copy of next month's book.

THURSDAY, 9:30-10:30 AM

Preschool Story Hour features stories, songs, puppets and more that encourage development of early literacy skills in young children ages 3-5. Children attend independently. 
Registration is required. Please call or stop by the Children's Department to inquire about openings.


FRIDAY, 2-4 PM

What could be a more perfect blend than books and coffee? Join us at Bremen Public Library on Friday, Oct. 13 for The Perfect Blend -- a coffee tasting featuring Mean Bean's full line of fall flavors combined with a book signing featuring author Sarah Price. Starting at 2 p.m., you can sample the following coffee flavors from our local Mean Bean Bistro and Brew: Sweet Potato Pie, Pumpkin Spice, Jazzy Jack-o-Lantern, Harvest Spice, Molasses Spiced Cookie, Caramel Candy Apple, Regular Mean Bean Brew. Small cups will be available for the coffee tasting. Fill out a rating card on the fall flavors to help us determine the most-liked blend of the day and you will be entered to win a book by author Sarah Price! From 3 to 4 p.m., Sarah Price will be available to sign books and mingle with patrons. Bring your own copy of one of her many titles or purchase one during the signing. Learn more about Sarah and her novels at sarahpriceauthor.com. 
Everyone is invited to attend this free event!

SATURDAY, 11-12:30 AM

Get in the Halloween spirit (pun intended) with a spooky design! Will your creation be a trick or treat? Young adults, children and families are encouraged to join us for this time of imagination. We will use LEGO bricks to study concepts via themes, develop math and science skills, work in teams and have fun! 
Everyone is invited to attend this free event!

SATURDAY @ MIDNIGHT

Saturday is the final day to submit your entry into the Flash Fiction Challenge. Students in grades 6-12 are invited to finish the following writing prompt using between 500 and 1,000 words: "It was a dark and stormy night when I found myself trapped in Bremen Public Library." Submit entries via e-mail to Chris Scandling at cscandling@bremen.lib.in.us or deliver a printed copy to the library. Ten winners will be chosen and notified on Friday, Oct. 20. Each winner will receive a $15 Barnes & Noble gift card and the top 10 stories will be featured on Bremen Public Library's YA Blog, "A Series of Fortunate Events," during the last week of October.